Nobody sends out a search party when you get lost in your own life.

You’re still there, of course. You turn up and get things done.

You smile in all the right places. Yet somewhere between the group chats, the work deadlines, every “I’m fine” (you’re bloody not!) and remembering to defrost something for tea, you started to fade.

Your soul and inner knowing have been slipping away bit by bit. You stopped asking yourself what you want. These days you mostly run on autopilot and caffeine.

And now here you are in midlife, wondering where she went. The woman full of passion, spark, and big dreams. 

If any of that sounds familiar, you’re in very good company. So many women reach midlife having spent years being whatever everyone else needed, and somewhere along the way they lost track of themselves.

That's where this quiz comes in. It highlights which of my five SHINE archetypes is running the show for you right now, and gives you your first gentle step back to yourself.